Melissa
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One day I was on the internet and came across the
Congenital Heart Disease Information and Resources web site. I had no idea
there were other kids out there who shared similar life stories. I was
very excited to read about them. It makes me feel better to know, I am not
alone.
I am 19 years old and a college student. I was diagnosed with an Atrial
Septal Defect at age four, and had open heart surgery. The
doctors were able to repair the hole in my heart with no complications or
medication,
but I developed a mild speech problem and some physical limitations. My
life since then has been challenging. |
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I was raised in Rochester, WA., a very small community where everyone knew me
and were very supportive and understanding of my disabilities. When I couldn't
play sports because it was too physically exhausting, my family and friends
started thinking of alternative activities for me. Instead of running or
jogging, I would walk, and instead of aerobics, I would ride my stationary bike.
When I was eight years old I was asked to be a cheerleader mascot. It was enough
to keep me physically fit without the physical exhaustion.
For two years I cheered for the high school during football and basketball
games. Also, I was later on the school dance team for four years. I felt normal
with the help of my family and friends.
Having a disability doesn't have to be a negative experience.
My other major challenge was my speech problem due to the surgery. When I spoke, I would
sometimes mix up my words and not annunciate them properly. It was really noticeable when I would get in front of the class to talk or meet
new people.
It was suggested to my parents to get me into voice lessons. I started
singing at age seven. I took to it like a duck takes to water, and have been
singing ever since. Singing helped me annunciate my words and helped my speech become
more fluid. I have performed at malls, fairs, restaurants, talent shows, a
cruise ship, and auditioned for Star Search twice. I am now pursuing a Bachelor
of Arts Degree specializing in Youth Drama and a minor in Vocal Presentation at
Central Washington University.
My biggest fears were turned into positive alternatives and solutions.
I want other kids who have a CHD to know that they should not give up.
There is hope. You can do a lot with a support group of family and friends. Stay
positive, don't let anyone get you down, and always set higher standards.
Remember, you are not alone.
Melissa
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